Rose hands friends there
Decide the fate of character
Sigmund Freud: The I, self, super-I
Ellis: What is sex? Study is the highest authority also easily dare not a definition
The three masters of psychology most people have heard, their views can be any one in our lives to find proof, it said: psychology everywhere.
“Hong Kong is really a high-pressure city, everyone has the disease, Ding Ding Dong had wanted to take after-effects of Hermes Kelly Bag , Jane Ren selective phobia, rich and poor is a split personality, Jane Ren’s father has sleepiness disease.” Hong Kong film “The Shopaholics” described in the city under the influence of high pressure: each person, no matter rich or poor, man or woman, have a pathological behavior of the performance, this is a true portrayal of the real world, it is for this reason that the more psychological treatment to more attention. In China, eager to receive psychological treatment growing team psychologist is also slowly expanding, Li Man is now a permanent psychological clinics consultants, two years of psychological counseling experience to her profound feelings.
Hearing it less
“I feel very hopeless and helpless. Precious daughter soon to participate in college entrance examination, and she is our family’s pride and hope, we have planned for her in her beautiful future - in the domestic finished university, sent She went to Britain or the United States on graduate students, as long as she likes, we can invest in immigrant family with her past, her daughter will be out after ten years of quasi-middle class, the ranks of high society in the … … But all the desire in today parents at completely shattered, disappeared without a trace: the class teacher warned me, the daughter of Love! I do not know what the next step be going, I do not know how to face all! “- the desperate mother
This is Li Man has encountered a patient, this talk is just a small part of patients and Li was the man on the phone chat took dozens of minutes, she was difficult to calm agitated. Chun-Man has been listening quietly, she said, waiting for her to talk after all the boredom, Chun Man told her: In the face of this matter, in the face of her daughter, in the face of the next to be happening, and told her how to guide the adolescent daughter, only spent a few minutes. A few months later, the patient called Li Man: her daughter was admitted to a key university, and in her under the guidance of the end of that period of immature love. She also revealed that Chun Man “facts one wishes to hide” - “the day the phone with you, I was not the purpose of driving a car in the Fourth Ring around the heart of despair have to be added, after listening to you a few words, although the days have been Near the evening, but I see the sky in front of the Yunkai, exposing the light. “
As described by Li Man psychology her eyes: “It is science + arts disciplines.” Talking about doing psychologist should have the basic quality, Li Man’s view is: “As a psychologist, the most basic point is to learn how to listen, listen to than the more difficult to express. because in listening, you should be in patients with the problem of ripping out layers to the surface of the factors recede, to consider solutions. Therefore, first make full use of your ears and listen more, followed by you can say to help patients with noble words. “
Patients love
“I’m just a middle school students can be exposed, I still have a serious addiction. I do not know when it started to do, but I feel very painful, every time I have uncontrollable seizures themselves, the people around know that I have this disease, there is no respect for me - in schools by teachers, verbal abuse, and stand, write checks are common, not the students and I play with. Even his mother did not let me go out, go out before the solution must be to help me out, I feel that I live There is no Hermes Birkin Bag , it is better to die! “- painful.
The patient’s age, but his condition is very serious, he went on in the clinic for treatment Chun Man until very hesitant, the phone said: “Auntie, I am afraid uncontrollable in the course of their conversation, but also the incidence , I still had not. “Chun Man encouraged him:” You have such a mental disease, not entirely your problem, aunt to help you correct the face, you will be recovered. “process in his speech, Li Man of the Patients have gradually understanding the cause: This is a very strong character to the child, the pressure of a long period of study, a single boring living environment so that he turned into a gray world, but his heart there is a strong performance of For. Chun-Man told him: “You try to accept her classmates and friends, try to love you, relatives and family members, slowly, you will find love and happiness of being loved is a wonderful thing.” After more than two months treatment, the patients had fully recovered, returned to his normal life.
Li Man-believe: “Attitude is everything.” She contacted all kinds of patients, ordinary people it seems difficult to tell the ill patients, in her view should be unconditional respect and love - “ordinary people sick patients on a lot of preconceived ideas that they do not have the normal control. I have come across patients of sexual perversion, including homosexuality, they are also very painful, they do not want the community treat them with tinted glasses. psychotherapists and patients should be empathy, full respect for their to help them. “
Working on a happy
“I was just working near young girls, but I think it has the mental age over 50 years old! My heart is tired: Why in reality there are so many strange phenomena, I can not accept, the school teachers did not teach me how to do. Originally, I went into the community with confidence to achieve my dream, but now I do not know where the road, I have failed. “- melancholy workplace people
The patients just like many young people into the community, like many vision, but the reality is often deviated from the vision. However, Chun Man appears on the patient’s treatment is relatively easy - young people like a piece of white paper, even if by the point setbacks, always able to depict the colors. Li Man-in treatment for her use of a set of professional assessment and mitigation methods, told her: “You were right, in the school curriculum did have a teacher did not teach you, that is, interpersonal learning. This is the most practical one also the simplest subjects, practical significance is that it reflected in our lives bit by bit, the simple sense, is as long as you use an inclusive, love heart to seriously study, it is the most simple philosophy of life. “
Days of treatment, the patient insisted diary. When she fully recovered after holding a special trip to Chun Man diary, the diary recorded in detail during the days of treatment every point of her minor changes, including her views on the surrounding environment changes and acceptance of things such as awareness and feelings . Look at her diary at the time that can still clearly moved by the warmth of the soul Chun Man, “because I can clearly see that a life under the guidance of my life that love and passion, happiness created this simple!”
Sigmund Freud: The I, self, super-I
Ellis: What is sex? Study is the highest authority also easily dare not a definition
The three masters of psychology most people have heard, their views can be any one in our lives to find proof, it said: psychology everywhere.
“Hong Kong is really a high-pressure city, everyone has the disease, Ding Ding Dong had wanted to take after-effects of Hermes Kelly Bag , Jane Ren selective phobia, rich and poor is a split personality, Jane Ren’s father has sleepiness disease.” Hong Kong film “The Shopaholics” described in the city under the influence of high pressure: each person, no matter rich or poor, man or woman, have a pathological behavior of the performance, this is a true portrayal of the real world, it is for this reason that the more psychological treatment to more attention. In China, eager to receive psychological treatment growing team psychologist is also slowly expanding, Li Man is now a permanent psychological clinics consultants, two years of psychological counseling experience to her profound feelings.
Hearing it less
“I feel very hopeless and helpless. Precious daughter soon to participate in college entrance examination, and she is our family’s pride and hope, we have planned for her in her beautiful future - in the domestic finished university, sent She went to Britain or the United States on graduate students, as long as she likes, we can invest in immigrant family with her past, her daughter will be out after ten years of quasi-middle class, the ranks of high society in the … … But all the desire in today parents at completely shattered, disappeared without a trace: the class teacher warned me, the daughter of Love! I do not know what the next step be going, I do not know how to face all! “- the desperate mother
This is Li Man has encountered a patient, this talk is just a small part of patients and Li was the man on the phone chat took dozens of minutes, she was difficult to calm agitated. Chun-Man has been listening quietly, she said, waiting for her to talk after all the boredom, Chun Man told her: In the face of this matter, in the face of her daughter, in the face of the next to be happening, and told her how to guide the adolescent daughter, only spent a few minutes. A few months later, the patient called Li Man: her daughter was admitted to a key university, and in her under the guidance of the end of that period of immature love. She also revealed that Chun Man “facts one wishes to hide” - “the day the phone with you, I was not the purpose of driving a car in the Fourth Ring around the heart of despair have to be added, after listening to you a few words, although the days have been Near the evening, but I see the sky in front of the Yunkai, exposing the light. “
As described by Li Man psychology her eyes: “It is science + arts disciplines.” Talking about doing psychologist should have the basic quality, Li Man’s view is: “As a psychologist, the most basic point is to learn how to listen, listen to than the more difficult to express. because in listening, you should be in patients with the problem of ripping out layers to the surface of the factors recede, to consider solutions. Therefore, first make full use of your ears and listen more, followed by you can say to help patients with noble words. “
Patients love
“I’m just a middle school students can be exposed, I still have a serious addiction. I do not know when it started to do, but I feel very painful, every time I have uncontrollable seizures themselves, the people around know that I have this disease, there is no respect for me - in schools by teachers, verbal abuse, and stand, write checks are common, not the students and I play with. Even his mother did not let me go out, go out before the solution must be to help me out, I feel that I live There is no Hermes Birkin Bag , it is better to die! “- painful.
The patient’s age, but his condition is very serious, he went on in the clinic for treatment Chun Man until very hesitant, the phone said: “Auntie, I am afraid uncontrollable in the course of their conversation, but also the incidence , I still had not. “Chun Man encouraged him:” You have such a mental disease, not entirely your problem, aunt to help you correct the face, you will be recovered. “process in his speech, Li Man of the Patients have gradually understanding the cause: This is a very strong character to the child, the pressure of a long period of study, a single boring living environment so that he turned into a gray world, but his heart there is a strong performance of For. Chun-Man told him: “You try to accept her classmates and friends, try to love you, relatives and family members, slowly, you will find love and happiness of being loved is a wonderful thing.” After more than two months treatment, the patients had fully recovered, returned to his normal life.
Li Man-believe: “Attitude is everything.” She contacted all kinds of patients, ordinary people it seems difficult to tell the ill patients, in her view should be unconditional respect and love - “ordinary people sick patients on a lot of preconceived ideas that they do not have the normal control. I have come across patients of sexual perversion, including homosexuality, they are also very painful, they do not want the community treat them with tinted glasses. psychotherapists and patients should be empathy, full respect for their to help them. “
Working on a happy
“I was just working near young girls, but I think it has the mental age over 50 years old! My heart is tired: Why in reality there are so many strange phenomena, I can not accept, the school teachers did not teach me how to do. Originally, I went into the community with confidence to achieve my dream, but now I do not know where the road, I have failed. “- melancholy workplace people
The patients just like many young people into the community, like many vision, but the reality is often deviated from the vision. However, Chun Man appears on the patient’s treatment is relatively easy - young people like a piece of white paper, even if by the point setbacks, always able to depict the colors. Li Man-in treatment for her use of a set of professional assessment and mitigation methods, told her: “You were right, in the school curriculum did have a teacher did not teach you, that is, interpersonal learning. This is the most practical one also the simplest subjects, practical significance is that it reflected in our lives bit by bit, the simple sense, is as long as you use an inclusive, love heart to seriously study, it is the most simple philosophy of life. “
Days of treatment, the patient insisted diary. When she fully recovered after holding a special trip to Chun Man diary, the diary recorded in detail during the days of treatment every point of her minor changes, including her views on the surrounding environment changes and acceptance of things such as awareness and feelings . Look at her diary at the time that can still clearly moved by the warmth of the soul Chun Man, “because I can clearly see that a life under the guidance of my life that love and passion, happiness created this simple!”
